The reality of life is that most people don't read the contracts they sign. If you want to buy that new car, you accept the dealer's terms -- negotiating the boilerplate isn't an option. If you want to use that software you agree to the terms of service. In most cases consumers believe that the terms will be reasonable, and that they will be treated fairly. There is mutual goodwill, and an expectation that a business that abuses or cheats its customers will not prosper in a competitive marketplace.
With managed senior communities, prospective residents visit and talk with sales staff, meet residents, and generally try to be sensitive to the "vibe" of the place. They make assessments about the cleanliness, attitudes of staff they meet, and the hospitality that is extended to them as visitors. If it seems welcoming and looks like a nice place to live they presume that it will continue to be. In short, the decision is largely based on the experience they have first-hand and the curb appeal of the physical plant.
But the commitment is not the same as buying a car or a home. For financial, emotional, and social reasons it's not easy to reverse the decision. We can't start over. It may be impossible to replace the nest egg invested. We don't want to separate from friends again, deal with the stresses and chaos of another move, and our physical resilience and health may factor in.
It's better to make the right decision the first time. Prudent prospective residents have an attorney review the contract and explain the potential risks, and clarify the rights and responsibilities the contract guarantees.
In this thread, I invite readers to comment on their experience. Did you have attorney review of your contract? Did you fully understand it? Were you surprised or disappointed by matters that came up subsequent to becoming a resident?
Richmond Shreve
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